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If something isn't growing, it's dying.
At that moment you realize you are in that avenue in your life, it
is time to let go. To just give up.
Don't think of what ifs. Time to go for happiness rather than a
long wait of feeling stuck, twisted, and twined into a ball of manipulation.
Don't wait for signs. They are not going to sweep you off of that
miserable feeling. You are your own sign manifested. Listen to your soul,
listen to what your heart is shouting, how you breathe and how you pace in a
seemingly unending maze. Be it a job, a relationship, a romantic relationship,
or whatever you might call it, if it seems poisonous and you've been having
nightmares, restless sleep, bad appetite or maybe even too much appetite, it is
time---to let it all go.
The problem with us is that we are bred in a society that believes
so much in the idea that letting go is bad. That when you let go, you simply
gave up. That when you let go, you lost. That when you let go, you pay for the
consequences. It is innate in us that we never take the time to reconsider this
choice and this will always be the last resort.
Then we find ourselves in that rut, dreaming how happy and
fulfilling life must be if we get out of this.
Acknowledge your feeling. This is the first step out of all the
bullshit. It is such a beautiful thing when the realization hits us, like an
inevitable collision. In an instant that you feel something is wrong, SOMETHING
IS REALLY WRONG. Acknowledge that, don't wait for months or even years to
realize this. Don't wait to feel too small already before you realize that
something is bothering you. You have to listen to your feelings, always. Trust
me, it will save you.
You are not too small for this. What you think and how you feel is
enough valid reason for you to move forward. Do not negate your feelings. Do
not allow yourself to be the victim of the situation. If it's already too much
then get out of it. Give up. Take yourself away from it, as far as possible,
the soonest time.
Save yourself. Save yourself while there is something left to
save. Think that this is not the only path that is available for you. Realize
the fact that there are still many opportunities out there waiting for you, for
you to discover. Somewhere along that bent something greater is waiting.
Open yourself up. To new possibilities. To new beginnings. Always.
Because this is the only thing that will save you from your hell hole. Toughen
up a bit or may be more than a bit. You need to stand strong and face unsure challenges
through a new patch in your life. Be ready for failures over and over again, it
is but a natural cycle in life that you must go through to learn your lessons.
Try, try, and for heaven's sake try your hardest. You are not
going to die from trying. It is better that you have tried and you failed many
times than to just wonder what could have happened.
Dream. Please do dream big, remember being a kid when you wanted
to climb the highest mountain or be a doctor? You were instantly that person in
your head. So don't let this chance slip from you. Dream big, dream small,
dream medium. No matter what happens never take this away from yourself, after
all dreaming is free. It is but a dream that realigns our negative patterns
into beautifully woven choices.
Please...Don't let anybody or anyone dictate what you should and
should not do. Please never let this happen to yourself, be the master of your
own mind, the creator of your own path. Traverse the unknown and never let
anybody else's experience cloud your judgment about things that you need to do
for yourself. After all, you are the only person most capable of understanding
what you want to happen. If you keep allowing this to happen for yourself, your
poisonous cycle will repeat itself over and over again. Don't let this happen.
High times will come. Consider this fact, if you are so low right
now and your self-esteem is down the drain, expect that the next thing that
will come into your life is the highest of high. There is no other way but that
place. You know how it is to feel below the food chain already that the
Universe will grant you nothing but the best of happiness. Your time will come.
Trust the process. Trust that everything comes in the right time,
the right place, at the right sequence. You are in that position because the
Universe knows that you are well capable of getting yourself out of that. Flow
with the pain, the sadness, the anger, and every other negative vibration
because after that, everything positive will spill into your life.
Above all, be gentle and forgive yourself. Accept all your
failures, accept all the heart aches you are feeling. Acknowledge the fact that
you are so low at the moment and do not let this grieving stage fly by. Feel
every bit of sadness, wallow if you must. You are the only person who feels
what you are exactly feeling, no one else will understand, no matter who you
confide with. Forgive yourself and choose to love yourself for every wrong
choices you made. Choose to love yourself completely in spite of the stupidity
you've made yourself experience. Amidst all of these chaos, you will get out,
you will be fine.